For many people the Christmas season can be a time of joy and a great opportunity to spend time with loved ones. For others, it can also be a stressful or lonely period. There is the expectation to be happy and carefree, to juggle responsibilities, and cope with feelings of depression and anxiety
There can be pressure to socialise with friends and family, temptation to overindulge in food and alcohol and then there is the financial strain that gifts and celebrations can put on our bank balance.
Here are some ideas to help you navigate what can sometimes be a festive season:
- Plan your time: Schedule exactly what you want to do including Christmas Day. Include some activity, such as exercise, going for a walk or spending some time outside. Balance your social commitments with self-care.
- Self-care: Take a break – having time out helps to prevent stress and maintain energy levels throughout the day. Self-compassion is also good for your mental health.
- Make a Christmas playlist: Studies show that music releases dopamine (the feel-good chemicals) in our brain.
- Avoid making comparisons: It’s easy to make unhealthy comparisons with what others are buying or doing. Limit your exposure to social media and TV advertising.
- Let go of unrealistic expectations: We all have our own version of what Christmas should be – this can mean living up to certain expectations that can be too much to take on.
- Don’t be afraid to ask for help: If you’re feeling overwhelmed, ask a friend or loved one to help with some of your responsibilities – this is a sign of strength.
- Connect with others: Spend time with family and friends – close and positive relationships help us to feel like we have a sense of belonging.
- Help your local community: Get involved by volunteering or donating gifts or food – this can provide a sense of purpose and connection with others.
- Remember we are all very different: Thinking of Christmas can elicit feelings of happiness or joy, but for some it may evoke feelings of loss or overwhelm. Do what you can to extend understanding and empathy to those who are struggling – we are all humans in need of connection.
- Moderate alcohol use: While alcohol can initially make us feel more relaxed, remember it’s a depressant and too much can make us feel irritable and low.
- Try to eat healthily: Over-indulging over Christmas is normal but try to keep your diet balanced (fruit and veg) so you can avoid energy lows that can reduce your mood.
- Sleep: Over the holiday period we often stay up later than usual and alcohol reduces the quality of our sleep. Try to limit the number of late nights and keep to your sleep routine as much as possible.
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